Communicating to your partner about your sex life can be challenging. Here are some tips on how to discuss your likes, dislikes, needs and wants together.
Set the Mood: Find a comfortable place to talk outside of the bedroom.
Timing is Important: Make sure your both not hungry, tired, irritable or similar. Find a time when your both comfortable and available, not distracted.
Don’t Be Shy: You’re both adults who have sex with each other, use your adult words. Be as clear and communicative as possible.
Conversation Opener: Start the conversation with the parts of your sex life you enjoy.
Remember the Time: Describe the sexual instance which happened or you wish to happen. Explain in as much detail as you can.
Check In: Ask questions to make sure they are comfortable and on the same page. Such as: Do you remember that time? Have you ever thought of this too? How do you feel about this?
Make a Wish: State your wish, desire, or need to your partner. Be clear and honest with your request. Discuss why you have the request and how it makes you feel.
Be a Source of Comfort: Acknowledge your appreciation of your partner listening to your request and discussing your needs. Thank them!
It Goes Both Ways: Let your partner know you are open to discuss any needs, wants, or likes, dislikes they may have either now or at a later date.
In Closing: Give them a big hug, cuddle, kiss, do whatever it takes to show your love for them!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️