Sex Talk
Communicating to your partner about your sex life can be challenging. Here are some tips on how to discuss your likes, dislikes, needs and wants together.
Set the Mood: Find a comfortable place to talk outside of the bedroom.
Timing is Important: Make sure your both not hungry, tired, irritable or similar. Find a time when your both comfortable and available, not distracted.
Don’t Be Shy: You’re both adults who have sex with each other, use your adult words. Be as clear and communicative as possible.
Conversation Opener: Start the conversation with the parts of your sex life you enjoy.
Remember the Time: Describe the sexual instance which happened or you wish to happen. Explain in as much detail as you can.
Check In: Ask questions to make sure they are comfortable and on the same page. Such as: Do you remember that time? Have you ever thought of this too? How do you feel about this?
Make a Wish: State your wish, desire, or need to your partner. Be clear and honest with your request. Discuss why you have the request and how it makes you feel.
Be a Source of Comfort: Acknowledge your appreciation of your partner listening to your request and discussing your needs. Thank them!
It Goes Both Ways: Let your partner know you are open to discuss any needs, wants, or likes, dislikes they may have either now or at a later date.
In Closing: Give them a big hug, cuddle, kiss, do whatever it takes to show your love for them!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
